What are some tips for making your husband fall madly in love with you again after going through the worst phase of your marriage?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 00:46
Telling me that he was going out for a few drinks with his mate but at 07.30am I couldn't get hold of him!
I live in southern England and I don't do the north!
His cover was blown when I asked him to install the Instagram app (he thought that by deleting the app and reinstalling it when he wanted to send or receive messages) would cover his ass!
Absolutely wrong fukkin move dumbass!
He point blank refused so that told me that she was on his Instagram!
The heartbreak and loss that I feel now literally has destroyed my entire world!
Then he tells me that he had always been in love with me and wanted me to leave my husband and go and live with him up north!?
Also it made me feel like he was fighting for me (not that he would ever have to) and he was showing me some attention (even though it was the wrong kind of attention!)
I am such a fukkin idiot!
After many long arguments and endless efforts by me questioning him about her (which he gave me absolutely no information on except her name, he finally admitted it to because she told him that he wasn't her type and wasn't interested in seeing him again!)
I asked him to install the app in front of me which he did but he was sweating like a nun in a porn shop when I asked him to give me his phone!
Of course he denied everything but when you have been married to someone for over 20yrs you instinctively know when they are bullshitting you!
What does it mean when we dream about demons, ghosts, monsters, etc.?
A year down the line my loyal, faithful and trustworthy husband cheated on me with the ugliest pig that you could ever fukk!
If she hadn't have fukked him off then he admitted that he probably would have seen her again!
One of the guys was someone that I knew from 15yrs ago and we were good friends!
What is the story behind bhai dooj?
Where the fuck did that come from!?
Why would she need to lie about anything?
I went on there solely to try and find the woman and when I asked him about having an Instagram account he denied it despite me showing him his account!
If I could turn back the hands of time then I would in a heartbeat!
What a dumbass!
He kept denying it because he thought that he could carry on seeing her behind my back if I didn't know about her!
I instinctively knew that he had betrayed me and I could feel it somehow!
He said that he did it just to get back at me and hurt me for talking to men online and it was all my fault!
That night when he was asleep I checked his Instagram and he had moved her to the “don't accept any notifications from this person”
How do I become mentally strong?
We were just having a laugh!
Any accent above London is a no go for me!
At that point I should have told him to fukk off and block him on all my social media..why I didn't I still can't explain to this day! It's like I was still just seeing the lonely sad 16yr old that I felt sorry for and still couldn't believe that he had sent me a picture of his ugly dick!
Why is it always me!?
My husband found everything on my laptop (which I think secretly deep down was hoping that would just to get me out of a situation where I had no idea what to do!)
How did it go from reminiscing about 40yrs ago as good friends to then getting a picture of his fukkin takle!?
He was working hard and long hours or me and our children
It absolutely broke his heart and he said that I was going behind his back by talking to these guys and not telling him.
I had absolutely no idea how to handle the situation so I tried to brush it off and made a joke out of it!
Despite his telling me to stop talking to men online (Facebook friends) I then started talking to an American friend who made me laugh, knew that I was married and never ever once did we have any sexual desire or talk about it!
Of course I messaged her and she actually answered me!
The absolutely hilarious icing on the cake is despite her not being drop dead gorgeous as I'd imagined the whole time, but when I actually found her and saw her picture It made me feel like a super model!
I always feel very tired after I do some exercises, even after a night's sleep. What's the problem?
I was absolutely over the moon that she was the only one who answered his dating messages!
I was talking to a couple of guys online because I felt unloved and neglected by my husband.
Never anything sexual and I had absolutely no intention of leaving my husband for any of them at all!
HOW THE ACTUAL FUCK DID IT ESCALATE TO THAT!?
We were FRIENDS!!
I have lost the air that keeps me breathing!
At that point I just wanted any attention that I could get from my husband!
I didn't see it as cheating and I didn't know how much that it would hurt my husband!
Her account of events are totally different to what my husband told me but despite everything she has absolutely no blame in the situation!
My husband thought that we were getting to close (despite never having mentioned sex or leaving my husband) so he blocked him from all of my social media!
I thought that it was fair enough as I didn't want my husband worrying about him!
I refused and said that he should have given it to me when I asked as now I know he's deleted any evidence!
He gave me everything that I needed to know when I found out that he was on Instagram!
I then found out her name which he had tried so hard to keep me from finding out and now I know why!!
Firstly…what complete and utter bullshit! If he did it just to hurt me then when he got back from trying to get jiggy with some sad ugly fuck that he met on Facebook dating he would have told me! That would have hurt me and it would have proven to me that he actually did it for that reason! Telling me that I'm paranoid and that he hadn't betrayed with anyone me told me that he did it because he wanted to!
Needles to say that I've screenshot all of her messages! 😂😂😂
10 minutes later he gave me his phone and said here you are I've got nothing to hide!
I nearly fell off my chair! 😳😳
Jealousy made me feel wanted loved by him!
One of them is telling porkies and my husband says that he is telling the truth which I doubt very much!
Last laugh is that she said from the moment she met him she knew he wasn't her type and also said that he was shit in bed! 😂😂
Which it was doing until I installed Instagram and saw his account?
I thought that I could handle the situation by trying to take it down a notch and remind him that we were just good friends.. but obviously I couldn't and it didn't happen!
I used to have the most loyal..trustworthy and loving husband in the world until I totally fukked everything up!
My husband then had the cheek to ask me why I hadn't defended him when she said that!
After reminiscing about the past he told me that he had always been in love with me and then sent me a dick pic!
At that point I should have told my husband but like a fucking idiot I carried on talking to him still trying to brush off the ugly dick pic and trying to bring it back down to the old times when we were just friends!